SCT
C'est la vie
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Men!

Men! I always struggle to understand what works best with a man; ignoring him, or extra care!

Men are just like the universe; the deeper you sail in, the more wonders you see/ discover.

One day he is so in love with you, the other day he is falling out of love. The problem is not that he is falling in/ out of love; the problem is that he thinks about the whole situation solely, as if there is no 2nd human being involved in it. He thinks, initiates, fires, and dumps all in a short period of time.

 

There is a song for Anastasia called “heavy on my heart” and she says in it:

I try to fly away but it's impossible
And every breath I take gives birth to deeper sighs
And for a moment I am weak
So it's hard for me to speak
Even though we're underneath the same blue sky “
 

 

A friend of mine is facing a dilemma. A man started expressing his feelings to her with much enthusiasm and without a warning- and as fast as he admitted his admiration to her- he pulled his “hand break” up and stopped the process completely! She sees him every day and smiles in wonder and thinks “what in earth are you thinking about!”

Deep inside- she knows that he is not thinking at all; he simply changed his mind and wants out but can’t tell her in the same frank way he used when he told her he likes her. 

I do believe in this line a lot “if you love something, let it go, if it comes back to you then it is yours. But, if it didn’t, then it never meant to be”.  I think he is lost in his own universe now and that he needs to find his way back alone.

Until he does that- my question remains standing; should she ignore him and go on in her life, or should she wait and try to take his hand to show him the way back home?
 
Love,
HSCT


And for a moment I am weak
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On March, 02, 2006 12:21 PM , Ramroom
from United Arab Emirates said:

Did i ever mention that i love the way you write??


On March, 02, 2006 5:02 PM , wedad said:

and men say this about women!!!
I love what your wrote


On March, 03, 2006 11:12 AM , Hala said:

Reema,Nop, you never told me :) Thank you my dear friend.

Wadad, Thank you. I think you are right. But i know that men are enjoying being in control most of the time.


On March, 04, 2006 9:44 AM , fadi K said:

Men use their heads :)


On March, 05, 2006 9:54 PM , Laith Zraikat
from Jordan said:

I agree with Wedad. This only proves that men and women are made of the same "dirt" :)




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