Breaking up is not a fun experience and it will never be. some times you wish if you can stop the time and reverse everything back- as a videotape- and start all over again just to avoid the mistakes which got you were you are right now- breaking up with your loved one!

You start thinking, losing sleep over it and even stop eating, or over eat for some people :) You start thinking "how will I get him/her back into my life". You are now dispirit and you may do just about anything to get them back to your life. When seeing your-self in this position STOP. Refrain from doing anything major- selling your house, buying expensive things for them, quitting your job, leaving town, taking a long vacation, buying a flower truck and stand under their balcony and sing "Hello". All of these acts will just be seen /interpreted as running away or begging, thus, stamping you with "coward" label or leading you to hate your self even more.

If you can't face your demons ignore them. Don't let your anger, depression, sadness, sorrow get the best of you. Always think positive and remind your self with your best qualities and acts- BUT- acts that aren't with your lover. Remembering your acts with your lover will bring you down even more. It is difficult- but it is like going into a new food regime- you have to make it a life style. We can never get used to anything unless we make a life style out of it.

Immortality my friends- eternity is created in a moment of love. You see the world in your lover's eyes and you lose it when they walk away. Be your own miracle- don't wait for someone to write your identity in this world. You write it in the forehead of the sun- in the ocean paper and on the wind voice. You are an independent, perfect and successful humanbeing. Believe it and you will see it.

Love,

H.